Divorce is a funny thing to me, but then again so is marriage. I have been wondering lately what the point of marriage is besides the stability and maybe having health insurance through a spouse. I know it sounds cynical, but I think that there are so many married people out there that are completely unhappy. Sure there are some happy ones, and I am all for that. I might be lucky enough to someday find the perfect guy... perfect for me that is... and I might decide to try the marriage thing again.

After all that is what we are supposed to do, right? My best friend has told me that she has been feeling so pressured to get married and have kids lately because it seems like everyone else our age is doing it. It's sad but so true, so many of us rush into doing things because we feel like they need to happen.

Since I am in the middle of a divorce, I am feeling the opposite. I am in my early 20's and I have 2 kids already and soon enough I will be lucky enough to say that I am divorced. It is really weird to get into the swing of being without a husband and being without my kids some of the time too. I was a stay at home mom for over 3 years and now I have to get myself reacquainted with the job world.

I was lucky enough to be able to go down to the beach this weekend for Bike Week and that really helped to clear my head of silly thoughts. I suppose the beach, bikes, booze, and hot as shit boys will help to do that though ;)